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Day 428: Unpublished

I wrote a very long post today. It was full of my anger and pain and frustration (see yesterday’s post if you must.) Then I deleted it, but not before asking a good friend’s opinion. In case you’re wondering, it was a clear, “This is NOT a good idea.” I love and respect this friend, so I took his advice and deleted the draft. Some things should remain unpublished.

Now that I’ve purged all those feelings and consigned them to the dustbin of my computer, all I’m left with is tremendous gratitude for a friend who can read the pain behind the words, acknowledge it, and then keep me from doing something stupid like publishing my brain dump. My friends are such a blessing. I’m lucky and I know it.


On the subject of things that remained unpublished: Last time I told you about our curtain problem, I neglected to mention that this was a deal I made with Mr. December when we designed our house. I wanted all these windows; he pointed out that it would make it very difficult to keep the room dark. I promised that I’d make sure we had a complete blackout solution for the window coverings. He conceded. So far I’ve got my windows, but haven’t managed to block out the light.

That’s why when I wasn’t venting my spleen through my keyboard, I was making a cardboard mock-up (longtime readers know about my passion for mockups) of a valence (or maybe it’s a cornice?) for our bedroom curtains. My hope is that it will eliminate the light leaking around the tops of the curtains. It had better, because it’s my last good idea. Next I’m just going to paint our bedroom windows black; I’ll scrape the paint off after the Autumn Equinox, when mornings are dark again.

2 thoughts on “Day 428: Unpublished

  1. Cornice sounds good!!! Yupe, under circumstances suggesting mask isn’t right idea.
    Sorry you had such outrage and yes, double checking with a good and honest friend before acting in outrage often is very helpful. Writing down the rage is helpful for ourselves, but sometimes sharing it with others only creates chaos.
    I am sorry.
    I hope today is pain free, blue skies and love.

  2. ? Heavy/dark bed curtains???? Depends on bed frame. MIGHT be exotic and fun… OR just huge dust catcher and allergen collector. Would reduce air circulation in room and might make it hotter in the summer.

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